Shienarier,
You make /dev/dvd as a symlink to your real DVD device or you point the program to your real DVD in its setup.
/dev/cdroms contains symlinks to your real CDROM (and DVD devices) one of these (if you have more than one) will point to the real device.
What goes into /etc/fstab depends on how you want to solve your problem. If its playing DVDs, they are not normally mounted to be played.
Heres what I have.
/dev/cdroms/cdrom0 /mnt/dvd iso9660,udf noauto,ro,users 0 0
I have a mount point called /mnt/dvd, which normally gets /dev/cdroms/cdrom0 mounted on it. The system will try iso9660 and udf filesystems before complaining about the type. the filesystem is not automatically mounted at boot, its read only and users are allowed to mount cds and dvds. It is never dumped (backed up)
Regards,
NeddySeagoon