OMG, I looked at the original post then the last 2 pages.
I've been a long time linux user.
I did look at gentoo when it was 1st out (long ago)
But up until the last couple of years, I always hand built my systems anyway, kernel and packages.
When I bought my new box, I decided to try gentoo, and I've been happy with it (for the most part)
It's not for everyone.
But then, neither is building a complete system from scratch, either hardware or software.
I still hand build my computer systems (hardware) from scratch.
Bottom line, if you don't like gentoo, or any system for that matter, then find something that works for you.
Complaining because you bought a yugo, and it doesn't work like a nissan pickup is foolish, IMO.
Be well, my friends.