Ok, here is where Im at now. Ive disabled TLS altogther for the moment to work my sasl problems. From a remote site with Kmail config'd to use smtp auth, Ive got encryption set to none and plain. Here is what I get:
Sending failed:
One of the recipients was not accepted.
The server responded: "<
my@email.com>: Recipient address rejected: Relay access denied "
Here is my current main.cf:
command_directory = /usr/sbin
daemon_directory = /usr/lib/postfix
inet_interfaces = $myhostname, localhost
mydestination = $myhostname, localhost.$mydomain, $mydomain
alias_maps = hash:/etc/mail/aliases
alias_database = hash:/etc/mail/aliases
home_mailbox = .maildir/
relay_domains = $mydestination
mynetworks = 192.168.2.0/24,127.0.0.0/8
#smtpd_use_tls = yes
#smtpd_tls_auth_only = yes
#smtpd_tls_key_file = /etc/postfix/ssl/newreq.pem
#smtpd_tls_cert_file = /etc/postfix/ssl/newcert.pem
#smtpd_tls_CAfile = /etc/postfix/ssl/cacert.pem
#smtpd_tls_loglevel = 3
#smtpd_tls_received_header = yes
#smtpd_tls_session_cache_timeout = 3600s
#tls_random_source = dev:/dev/urandom
smtpd_sasl_auth_enable = yes
smtpd_sasl_security_options = noanonymous
smtpd_sasl_local_domain = $myhostname
broken_sasl_auth_clients = yes
smtpd_recipient_restrictions = permit_sasl_authenticated,permit_mynetworks,check_relay_domains