xdm & login to lxde

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I have a problem with logging of xdm to lxde

Description of problems:

1. XDM login manager shows me in the lower right corner of a console - how to configure XDM-and that this could not be seen?

2. after entering the username and password to login manager does not load my desktop, but just quickly jump screen with the word "succeful something" and I still have screen-which I enter a username and password ...

3. how to change the appearance of XDM-and because it is ugly: P - I note that I do not want to change login manager
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