dbus nautaulus and automount/unmount

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I'm currently successfully using dbus t mount my drives, however it only mounts them when i double click the cd icon in nautalus and i can't eject them till i open up nautilus again and right click the icon, then either unmount it or eject it. Is there anyway to have dbus function more like a mac or gaes system where the cd gets mounted when the drive closes and then unmounted when the button is pressed to eject the drive, as long as it's not in use I'm only using nautilus as a file broser to visualize my file system every once in a while, not useing gnome so it takes a while to load up.