Thanks all for your help
Special thanks to NeddySeagoon you are right
slow USB subsystem was the problem (I did not expect that

)
Just to complete the answer
All USB drivers were installed even useless ones
and when SSD was mounted as root from USB kernel i see all USB devices
A bit off-topic but
I think that a module less kernel is a better solution
not only it pushes the companies from closed sourced firmware and drivers to openness
but also it is more secure (cause opensource) and more fast&efficient (cause tightly integrated)
Regarding kernel compiling i can say that
it can go painful sometimes but it is always rewarding
and you learn a lot of things doing that ( like today

)
P.S. It will be nice to add this to
Unable to mount root fs as a part of Analysis